Beautiful Disaster.

So, jus came back from cellgroup.n chatting with hannah n peijia. multi task lah. So, i had a very interesting conversation with liting n yankai on the train. they are like super cool. lols.
Today in cg, we learn something very impt , which i would like to share.N the topic is, RESPECT
firstly, respect is the act of giving a particular attention. that u pay special attention to tat person. tat we dun only pay respect to those who r older than us or wat, in fact, we should pay respect to everybody. Not only like people in our campuses or workplace, also people at home. On the whole, we should NOT live a double standard life. Something to take note is tat, in our dailylives, we bound to crack jokes here n there, but sometimes, our jokes croo the limit n may seem very critisizing(paiseh, dunno who to spell) n stuff. so we mus be very careful with our words, that every word that come out from our mouths mus be word of wisdon, encouragement n edification. Tat we will speak life into people, not death. N something to note here is that, whenever u scold a person with words if critisism or vulgarities, u r speaking death into a person. u r bring the person down instead of up! On the whole, we gotta be very sensitive to others' nids n meet their needs, this is a way u respect people too! also remember that RESPECT IS TO BE EARNED NOT FORCED! u gotta pay a price n go an extra mile for it. but when u go this extra mile, u will feel glad as u noe u r being a person of initiative n impact on a person's life!

also b4 signing off n going for swimming lessons, jus 2 steps of advice for some of u who r feeling very down bcus u didn't succeed on a particular thingy n instead, yur frens did.(take frm hannah's blog)
1) put aside yur feelings, stop eating SOUR GRAPES
2) learn from that person by observing wat he or she do

BE blessed! qy:D
( so now mr vilau is hunting me n hannah n jingyi down for cross-country...how?)

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